YOU: "The shoe is not so comfortable on the other foot, is it?"
That is precisely my question to you. You obviously enjoy sitting on your high horse and throwing out criticisms of me, but you are unwilling to subject your own beliefs to any sort of critical examination. Gee, why ever would this be? What could possibly explain this? Such an examination would actually go a long way towards answering your "questions," it would, I believe, show your criticisms to be hypocritical, which is why I think you are unwilling to allow it. You prefer to play the part of the aggrieved party, and parade around in righteous indignation. If you actually had to answer for your beliefs, you would no longer be able to play the part of the victim.
If you ever decide to stop this charade, get serious and actually have a real discussion with me, please let me know.